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So that when we do hear of a woman who met her husband on her first Tinder date, our reaction is, “I’m happy for her, and no less happy for me.”What then is my online dating takeaway, if not partnership?
How does someone find optimism, and any remaining energy to continue in the face of so much nothing?
Some are as tactless as the phone calls you describe.
Others are well-meaning, respectful men who aren’t ready for an ongoing relationship — maybe they’re recently widowed or in the aftermath of a bad break-up.
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Can you imagine a man in his 70s telling a stranger that she was “good enough for five or six romps in the hay”? I never went on a single date in the month I used the site. Once on the phone, they did not want to talk about much except sex. Yes, I am interested in a sexual relationship eventually.
They instil a fear that if we don’t keep trying, keep going, we’ll miss out on what other women found, and it’ll be all our fault.
Hope is something that has to come from inside us, it has to come from a place of (and I know this sounds cheesy, brie with me) loving ourselves, and believing ourselves to be not just “okay” for being single, but entirely awesome for it.
I do not like men asking me sexual questions on a first phone call as if I am being interviewed for a role in a porn movie. I specified that I was looking for a relationship that would last several years, not casual sex. And yet almost every man who contacted me talked about sex!
My husband would have told you that I was the most willing and enthusiastic lover he ever had.
I just don’t like being treated like a hooker or a one-night-stand. In the age of Viagra and cheap porn, are men reverting to behaving like teenagers? I talked with a male friend and his response saddened and enlightened me. Next time, I recommend a few email exchanges before your first phone call to weed out the creeps and see if there’s potential for more.